Sometimes people get uncomfortable talking with strangers. The main reason behind the lack of communication techniques is they can’t take any actionable steps while communicating with people. As it is said the communication technique of the people delivers their personalities. So, if you are lacking a communication guide yourself then the book may help you a lot in building a good level of communication skills. The book is written by Leil Lowndes who described lots of actionable tips to increase your communication. By reading the whole book great communication will reflect your personality and make you feel comfortable among the crowd. Gaining effectiveness in human communication is not an easy task you have to work a lot on your communication but what to work you will definitely get the idea in the book of Leil Lowndes.
|Book||How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships|
Summaries of the book” How to Talk to Anyone”
The book described the presidential debate of Richard Nexon and JohF candy where Richard Nexon was found to be the loser because the people find him scrubbing his eyebrows. People feel that Richard is talking sometimes useless or lying. So, here in the book of Leil Lowndes, we will describe the 10 effective communication skills which will definitely boost your communication. No matter where you are you will always find this technique as effective and working. Communication techniques will always help you in leaving a great impression on yourself people. Let’s see the communication technique.
- The flooding smile: When you meet someone the first impression people look at is your smile. It indicates a lot about you whether we are comfortable meeting with you or not. A good smile can impress your frontier and if you will deliver a fake smile then it may indicate you are a fake person. you should not laugh every time as it indicates a fake smile and leads to a bad impression. While meeting with someone you should never start laughing. Take a pause and deliver a responsive smile. This technique will deliver a good impression and people will find your smile genuine. These type of techniques is used by some of the most highly professional earth businessmen.
- Sticky Eyes: You must have noticed while talking with strangers that they can’t concentrate on the eyes of the person. They start to counter the around things while communicating. It gives a bad impression to the people and they think that you don’t have any interest in talking with them. If you confidently want to talk with people for a long time you just have to put your eye contact with strangers while communicating with them. However, you can slowly look around things but always remember not to break the communication. Natural eye contact with someone’s eyes delivers good communication with good chatting interest.
- The latest news: The author says that people never leave their homes without covering the latest news of the day. For most of the people who go to the social gathering the first things they think are about their outfits but they don’t focus on social things. Getting busy with their look they forget to take the best things with them which is a good information about the current topic or social awareness news. You must look at the current information topic to start effective communication in the gathering. You will never feel a lack of information while communicating and delivering a knowledgeable personality.
- Hello: Old friends: You will find the friendly behavior of the others so, always try to meet with the person with a good impression. An amazing conversation makes you feel positive and energetic. People don’t want to know what you way but they love to know how deeply you know them.
- Limit Fidge: It delivers the movement of your body and the expressions of your hands while communicating with the other Such as bad posture, or wrong expression of the body. These types of expressions deliver a fake personality of you. You should never touch your face while communicating. Keep the body postures straight and start the conversation with a good hand expression. You can never gain the trust of your lover without a conversation.
- Be the chooser, not the chosen: Everyone in their life meets with a special person who has a separate feelings for each other. They think they can change their life. The author says if you ever meet these types of people then never wait for them instead of approaching them with good communication.
- Never the nacked city: Never reply to someone in a single line. You should always focus on making the conversation interesting. You must focus on the detailed things of the topic you can also approach the same with your interesting fellow. Such as if a person asks you about your city then you should not answer them with a single word, you can start a conversation about your city, famous food, famous streets, place, etc.
- Hans’s horse sense: You should observe the people about the reaction. By looking at the expression of your fellow people you should change your moves or expression. Always notice your person and try to understand their reaction and activity. If the person shows interest in you then you should start the conversation.
- Match the mood: When you meet with someone then try to counter their mood first to act accordingly. Try to match your mood with them. You should never react according to your mood for an effective conversation. If you lack information on the topic then patiently listen to the person. This will deliver a good impression and the person will think that you are interested om catching their topic or information.
- Epoxy eyes: If you are communicating one-to-one with the person then we have discussed the eye contact above. If sometimes it is not like that and you are communicating in the group, put a positive attitude toward the target person listen to the person and show interest in them. This will show your eagerness. The technique is powerful to greatly impacts the person.